By Leela Ramdeen, Chair, CCSJ & Director, CREDI
Sunday, May 10 is Mother’s Day. Let’s celebrate, affirm and honour our mothers – not only today, but throughout the year.
I remember my deceased mother, Ruby Ramdeen, nee Manning, who was a radiant example of love, service, patience, self-sacrifice and generosity. She had an unfailing sense of duty to her family. She was a woman of faith, wisdom, and common sense. Let’s thank God for the gift of our remarkable mothers, and for their steadfast love.
‘Ma’ passed on to her seven children her deep, abiding faith, and moral and spiritual values. In the face of life’s adversities, she and my now deceased father, Balgobin Ramdeen, taught us about family solidarity – a vital dimension of family life.
On Friday, May 15 the world will observe The International Day of Families; a day that “provides an opportunity to promote awareness of issues relating to families and to increase knowledge of the social, economic and demographic processes affecting them…this day is an opportunity to highlight different areas of interest and importance to families” (UN).
Reflect on paragraphs 2197–2257 of our Catechism. The Holy Family is a model for all our families. May is the month that is dedicated to our Mother, Mary. Let us ask her to intercede with Her Son, Jesus, for us, so that our families, and those of others, will be safe during this challenging period.
Paragraph 2207 & 2208 state: “The family is the original cell of social life… The family should live in such a way that its members learn to care and take responsibility for the young, the old, the sick, the handicapped, and the poor. There are many families who are at times incapable of providing this help. It devolves then on other persons, other families, and, in a subsidiary way, society to provide for their needs.”
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Now is the time to try to strengthen our family bonds. I received a call from a former student of mine in London, whose mother and son both died of COVID-19 recently. She is beside herself with grief and guilt.
She had been estranged from him, her only child, for a few years after he had told her that he was a homosexual. Although he lived a few streets away from her, she was so angry with his lifestyle choice, that she cut him off totally. He was 25 years of age when he died.
I had encouraged her over and over to reach out to her son, who was God’s gift to her. I had sent her material to read to support her e.g. the US Bishops’ Pastoral Message: “Always our Children: A Pastoral Message to Parents of Homosexual children and suggestions for Pastoral Ministers” (http://www.usccb.org/issues-and-action/human-life-and-dignity/homosexuality/always-our-children.cfm).
The Message “urges families to draw upon the reservoirs of faith, hope, and love as they face uncharted futures. It asks them to recognise that the Church offers enormous spiritual resources to strengthen and support them at this moment in their family’s life and in the days to come…it is an outstretched hand of the bishops’ Committee on Marriage and Family to parents and other family members, offering them a fresh look at the grace present in family life and the unfailing mercy of Christ our Lord…”
Pope Francis said in his post-Synodal Apostolic Exhortation, Amoris Laetitia, “…no family drops down from heaven perfectly formed; families need constantly to grow and mature in the ability to love.” And while family structure has changed over the years, let us not judge others, but reach out in love to all families.
As we battle the impact of COVID-19, remember that to build right relationships, we must open our hearts to be inclusive of ALL God’s children.
