On Saturday June 16 (my birthday) I delivered the feature address at the AGM of the IRO on the above theme (download address) Are we building strong families? Do our families have an opportunity to participate in the social, economic, physical and cultural activities of our nation?
The family is the bedrock of our society. Strong families build strong communities which in turn can build a strong nation. It is in the family that our young people first learn moral and spiritual values which give meaning to their lives. Blessed John Paul II reminded us years ago that: “The future of humanity passes by way of the family.” He referred to the family as “a society in its own original right”, and the “first and vital cell of society.”
At the beginning of June, Pope Benedict XVI delivered a speech inMilanwhen he opened the 7th World Meeting of Families. Inter alia, he said that the family is humanity’s “principal asset.” He highlighted the importance of faith and the family in today’s society; “the importance of legislation and the work of state institutions being ordered to the service and protection of the person in his various aspects, beginning with the right to life, the deliberate suppression of which can never be allowed, and the acknowledgement of the proper identity of the family, founded on marriage between one man and one woman.” He called for a defense of family time. He said we should make time for God, work and for family. He appealed for Church communities that are more and more family oriented.
In spite of all our challenges we have much to be thankful for in TT. Let us pay tribute to the thousands of families that have helped to build our blessed nation – from whichever part of the world they originated. I agree with His Excellency, Prof George Maxwell Richards, though, that “we are not all that we can be.” He warned that “we ignore family values and customs at our peril.”
Sustainable development must be people-centred. Today, many youths are growing up without any guidance, mentors or role models; without knowing, as the Bishop of London said recently, “a stable, loving, secure family life.”
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Where are our grandparents? You will have read Minister Fuad Khan’s statement about the number of our senior citizens whose families just abandon them in hospitals where they remain for years. Also, many of our senior citizens have been placed in homes for the aged. There are no proper regulatory systems to monitor the quality of care in these homes. Some families hardly go to visit their “loved ones” whom they place there.
Let us address the many social ills that pervade our land e.g. poverty and social exclusion, incest, domestic violence, crime, corruption, and human trafficking. More than 21.8% of our people live in poverty. Our neighbour is he/she who has need of us. Let’s commit to support families in our communities and to raise our voices to those in authority urging them to ensure that the economy works for ALL the people.
Prof Karl Theodore’s “Situation analysis of children and women in TT” reports “a growing trend in child abuse, and that mothers were the main perpetrators of physical abuse in the homes. A high level of sexual exploitation in TT, involving mainly sex with females under 16 years, and high incidence of rape”, have also been reported. The publication also reports an increase in violence in schools, particularly bullying, at the secondary school level (Newsday June 5).
Our forebears saw education as the way out of poverty. However, our education system leaves much to be desired. And do we have a plan to motivate our critical thinkers to remain/return to TT and help build families/TT?
Members of the IRO must be vigilant to ensure that proposed Government policies reflect the kind of values that will protect marriage and family life and build our nation.
